Recently, I was at my son’s school for community night. Given that it would be rude to say “dumb-ass” in a room filled with preschool parents, I needed to tailor my language for the audience.
The fatigue in mothers appears deeper than what I experience as a father.
Mommy fatigue reminds me of man flu, which is something that must be experienced to be believed.
I believe you and I wanted to help the community.
So I asked a question…
Do I perform better when I am exhausted?
I shared my experience…
The most fatiguing period of my adult life was spending 1,000 days constantly carrying around the problems of fatherhood. I thought about my problems 24/7 and it was exhausting.
I offered an antidote…
It was impossible for me to transcend my thought habits.
It has proven to be far easier to replace my habits with something useful.
When you find yourself fixated on your problems, pull out your Facebook feed and meditate on pictures that make you feel happy.
Close your eyes and breathe in that happiness.
When your problems reappear, close your eyes for a moment and breathe some happiness into them.
I shared my fatherhood goals…
I realized that aiming for perfection was making me miserable.
My kids don’t need perfection from me.
How should I define achievable success?
Stick with it.
Aim low, keep improving and we will end up better than we ever expected.