A story that’s true across cultures and time.
Consider two brothers…
If, under pain of death, you were given a week to get a task done then you’d be wise to call the older brother.
However, if you were told that you only had a week to live, irrespective of what you did, then you’d be wise to call the younger brother.
Two brothers, two different sets of skills.
It’s important to learn from all aspects of our families and respect our differences. There’s much to learn from people that are different from ourselves.